Change can come slowly, then all at once. For one young person preparing to move towns, the journey to this point has been shaped by early years in care, the steady support of a Transition Kaimahi, and a growing sense of self-belief. What lies ahead is unknown - but for the first time, it feels like something to be excited about.
I'm moving to another town soon. It's a big change, but a good one. I’ve been in full time employment for a while now, and my partner has family up where we’re moving. We visited a few times, and I really like it - the vibe, the people, the scenery. It feels like a fresh start.
Growing up… well, life was OK, all things considered. I spent most of my early years in care. I was in a few foster homes (some were better than others) and I usually stayed about a year in each. When I was 11, I was whāngai’d into my grandmother’s care. Living with Nana was good. She’s a big shopper, so we do a lot of that together.
Mum’s around. She has bipolar and struggles sometimes, but we’ve always had a great relationship. She’s been one of the most consistent people in my life. My dad doesn’t live here, so we don’t talk much.
I got referred to the Transition Kaimahi service through Oranga Tamariki. At first, I didn’t know much about it, but honestly, it’s been one of the best things for me. The Transition Kaimahi has been amazing. She has helped me get my first job, write a CV, and just supported me with everyday things that come up when you're trying to figure out life.
The Transition Kaimahi helped me get my licence and passport, which was a massive deal. We set some goals together, and I actually achieved most of them. One of my big dreams is to study law one day, and having someone in my corner, believing in me, helped build my confidence to actually say that out loud.
There was a time when things were getting rough. I was missing school a lot and didn’t really want to go home. The service helped me stay in a routine and encouraged me to get out of the house. Even just little things like helping me with a food parcel, or clothes for a job interview, they made a huge difference.
The service is still supporting me, even now as I plan this move. I know I can call whenever I need to, and I’ve called heaps over the years. The kaimahi helps me make appointments and just be on top of things. It’s that steady support that’s helped steer me in the right direction.
I go to the doctors here, and I’ve got some routines that keep me grounded. But more than anything, I’ve got a future I’m excited about.
The Transition Kaimahi didn’t just help me survive. She helped me move forward.
